Well 2010 has come and gone. It has been a challenging one, but one also filled with many blessings. So as we wind down the last week of this year, I leave you with a special lyric from one of my favorite songs for the Christmas season. The main verse from "At the Closing of the Year" written and performed by Wendy Melvoin and Lisa Coleman. This was the main theme song for the movie "Toys" starring Robin Williams.
"If I cannot bring you comfort
then at least I bring you hope
for nothing is more precious
than the time we have and so
we all must learn from small misfortune
count the blessings that are real
let the bells ring out for christmas
at the closing of the year "
I even found the video...
CJ
Monday, December 27, 2010
Friday, November 12, 2010
Aspiring to Excellence
A friend of mine was going through a "drive for excellence" type movement where she works and had some wonderful words to share on the subject::
(*Re-printed with permission*)
{"So I was pondering on why do we not strive for excellence at all times? And not just at work, but in all areas of our lives?
The idea of "the ultimate excellence" may be too extreme; however, I do believe that we all possess the energy needed to achieve "our own level of excellence." Our highest potential if you will. There is something that distiguishes the ordinary from the extraordinary."}
Then she included this great quote:
"Excellence is an art won by training and habituation. We do not act rightly because we have virtue or excellence, but we rather have those because we have acted rightly. We are what we repeatedly do. Excellence, then, is not an act but a habit." - Aristotle
CJ
(*Re-printed with permission*)
{"So I was pondering on why do we not strive for excellence at all times? And not just at work, but in all areas of our lives?
The idea of "the ultimate excellence" may be too extreme; however, I do believe that we all possess the energy needed to achieve "our own level of excellence." Our highest potential if you will. There is something that distiguishes the ordinary from the extraordinary."}
Then she included this great quote:
"Excellence is an art won by training and habituation. We do not act rightly because we have virtue or excellence, but we rather have those because we have acted rightly. We are what we repeatedly do. Excellence, then, is not an act but a habit." - Aristotle
CJ
Monday, September 27, 2010
Waiting on God?
Maybe, just maybe, God is waiting on you.
It is a simple statement, but one that holds a magnitude of great power. Suppose you find yourself in a position where life seems to be dragging on at a snail's pace and you are going nowhere. You pray that God will help you, that He bring you the answers you seek. Then you wait...and wait...and nothing happens to change your situation. You keep waiting for God to send you your miracle and it never seems to come.
There is a joke that goes something like this:
There was a man in sinking boat out in the ocean. He prayed and trusted that God would save him.
Soon a boat came by and offered to pick him up and take him to shore. The man refused saying, "I'm waiting on God to save me" and the boat left. He sank a little bit more.
Another boat came and offered to take the man to shore and again the man declined help and said, "I'm waiting on God to save me" and the boat left. His boat sank, leaving him swimming for his life in the deepest of water.
Finally a third boat came and offered him help, again the man said no adding, "I'm waiting on God to save me". The third boat left, and the man drowned.
When he came before God, he was upset saying, "I waited for you. Why didn't you save me?"
God said: I sent you 3 boats!!!
So often we are looking for a specific answer to our worries or concerns, we begin to give form and substance to our expectation, dress it up and call it THE answer to our prayers. And we wait for that one answer. However, sometimes God is waiting for us to stop asking the question. Stop talking in general and listen to what He is saying. He is sending the boats, but we are so sure we understand how he will lift us up out of our troubles, that we refuse to see Him in action. Maybe its time to stop waiting on God, and get in the boat.
Maybe you find yourself asking the same question, over and over. You earnestly pray and beg God to remove the obstacles in your way. Are you missing anything? Is there something you should be doing to start the process? Are there answers in front of you that keep overlooking?
When it seems like you keep waiting on God, perhaps the truth is that He is waiting on you.
CJ
It is a simple statement, but one that holds a magnitude of great power. Suppose you find yourself in a position where life seems to be dragging on at a snail's pace and you are going nowhere. You pray that God will help you, that He bring you the answers you seek. Then you wait...and wait...and nothing happens to change your situation. You keep waiting for God to send you your miracle and it never seems to come.
There is a joke that goes something like this:
There was a man in sinking boat out in the ocean. He prayed and trusted that God would save him.
Soon a boat came by and offered to pick him up and take him to shore. The man refused saying, "I'm waiting on God to save me" and the boat left. He sank a little bit more.
Another boat came and offered to take the man to shore and again the man declined help and said, "I'm waiting on God to save me" and the boat left. His boat sank, leaving him swimming for his life in the deepest of water.
Finally a third boat came and offered him help, again the man said no adding, "I'm waiting on God to save me". The third boat left, and the man drowned.
When he came before God, he was upset saying, "I waited for you. Why didn't you save me?"
God said: I sent you 3 boats!!!
So often we are looking for a specific answer to our worries or concerns, we begin to give form and substance to our expectation, dress it up and call it THE answer to our prayers. And we wait for that one answer. However, sometimes God is waiting for us to stop asking the question. Stop talking in general and listen to what He is saying. He is sending the boats, but we are so sure we understand how he will lift us up out of our troubles, that we refuse to see Him in action. Maybe its time to stop waiting on God, and get in the boat.
Maybe you find yourself asking the same question, over and over. You earnestly pray and beg God to remove the obstacles in your way. Are you missing anything? Is there something you should be doing to start the process? Are there answers in front of you that keep overlooking?
When it seems like you keep waiting on God, perhaps the truth is that He is waiting on you.
CJ
Tuesday, August 17, 2010
Ode to the Reverend James Howell
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Ode to the Reverend James Howell
Daydreaming in a cloud white sky
Tender memories of you return to embrace me
All noise fades away as the joy of your laughter fills the air
Guiding light, pastor.
More than words, teacher.
Compassionate heart, father figure.
You are in my thoughts,
You are missed.
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This is something I have been meaning to post for a long time. I wrote this for my pastor shortly after he passed away a few years ago. He was a man who embodied the essence of love and compassion. Aside from his sermons on Sundays, I learned from watching him in his actions with people. He always had a kind word, he always gave of his time and resources, and he was always available to listen. He was a true gentleman and I knew in my youth that I wanted to be a man like that.
Friday, July 9, 2010
Kindness in Action!
A most wonderful scene took place this afternoon. I was in one of the local gas station/convenience stores standing in line to pay. In front of me were two women, one directly in front of me waiting her turn and another talking to the cashier about her total. This woman at the very front had several snacks and drinks for what appeared to be her 4 children. They were also preparing hot dogs to complete the items to be bought. It seems the woman was having trouble either using a coupon or combining it with her food stamp card to cover the purchase. The cashier was patiently trying to clarify and confirm the options.
A few minutes passed as the woman directly in front of me and I watched the discussion at the register. Suddenly the woman in front of me stepped forward and said to the cashier, "I'll take care of hers. Please add her purchases to my $20 for gas at pump #1." The cashier just kind of stared for a moment. The woman in front of her said, "Oh no, you don't have to do that." The good Samaritan simply insisted by repeating the same request to the cashier. The cashier said OK and took her credit card. As she handed the card back, the woman in front just bowed her head a little and said, "Thank you so much!"
She turned to her children and told them to be thankful, "You all say Thank You to this nice lady, she just bought your food for you." They did and began to gather their items and leave. As the woman in front of me signed her reciept and walked out as well, I was just a bit stunned and had to snap out of it to make my purchase. I left the register and walked outside, but before I made my way to my vehicle I was led to speak to the woman who had done something so nice.
I walked up to her and said, "That was beautiful. You don't see goodness like that often enough. I am going to say a special prayer for you and ask God to bless you even more for sharing love." She just smiled and said it was nothing. Oh but it was something, yes indeed, something we can all be inspired by.
CJ
A few minutes passed as the woman directly in front of me and I watched the discussion at the register. Suddenly the woman in front of me stepped forward and said to the cashier, "I'll take care of hers. Please add her purchases to my $20 for gas at pump #1." The cashier just kind of stared for a moment. The woman in front of her said, "Oh no, you don't have to do that." The good Samaritan simply insisted by repeating the same request to the cashier. The cashier said OK and took her credit card. As she handed the card back, the woman in front just bowed her head a little and said, "Thank you so much!"
She turned to her children and told them to be thankful, "You all say Thank You to this nice lady, she just bought your food for you." They did and began to gather their items and leave. As the woman in front of me signed her reciept and walked out as well, I was just a bit stunned and had to snap out of it to make my purchase. I left the register and walked outside, but before I made my way to my vehicle I was led to speak to the woman who had done something so nice.
I walked up to her and said, "That was beautiful. You don't see goodness like that often enough. I am going to say a special prayer for you and ask God to bless you even more for sharing love." She just smiled and said it was nothing. Oh but it was something, yes indeed, something we can all be inspired by.
CJ
Tuesday, June 29, 2010
Poetry on the fly
Seems like writing often takes a back seat to life in progress. So I thought I would take this opportunity to switch seats. For now, just some impromptu poetry...
Scattered Reception
Mind brimming
Fingers blazing
While the music blares.
Words cascade
Pages fill
While the brain empties.
Emotions pulse
Dreams dance
While the window opens.
Glimpse inside
Ponder awhile
While my soul speaks.
CJ
Tuesday, May 18, 2010
Falling On
It is sometimes so very hard to live on this planet.
I feel I came here to be an agent of relief, helping others through their suffering. Angel? Maybe. Helper at the very least. However, before you can help someone on a deep level, you have to understand them. To truly understand pain and suffering, you have to experience it. I have.
I've been humiliated, cried, lost, fell, failed, been lied to, cheated, slapped, punched, kicked, subjugated, hurt, torn, broken, disrespected, hungry, thirsty, angry, abused, depressed, and lost. When I reach out to others I rarely say "I know what you are going through" nor do I often say "I know how that feels". Even though I most certainly do.
It can be extremely difficult to touch some one's pain without letting yourself be overwhelmed by those pains all over again. You have to feel them to show empathy, but how much you embrace is a line you must draw to stay on the strong side of emotions. Some people believe that counselors, and therapists draw that line dark & thick and always see it very clearly. I believe the line by its nature is light & fluid and can be crossed in a heartbeat. It is not a switch you can simply turn off. When the helping is all done, you take the pain with you. You process it as work, duty, or sacrifice to help others but sometimes it stays with you.
It's that one sad song you just cant stop playing, that sad movie that brings tears to your eyes every time, or that memory that rips you apart every time no matter how many times you say you have worked through it. These are the keys to your deepest pain, to the place where you truly understand what it means to hurt.
Sometimes we stay there too long. It comes a time when you need a shoulder to cry on. You feel like no one can help you because you have the world on your shoulders, and you must be strong enough to overcome your trials alone. It is during these times when it seems like living on this planet is a mistake, inside you are screaming in emotional agony. Now is when you must keep it all in perspective, after all there is no pain in the world that others have not suffered through before. Reach out.
Find your release. Write to your heart's content about what you are going through knowing that there is an opening at the other end. Listen to music that frees your soul from those painful memories. Turn to that special someone who knows how to ease your troubled mind. Cry if you must, but let it be a cleansing cry to shed some of the pain, not a cry that drags you down. If you were called to this place to help others, do it with compassion and sincerity. Just never let the emotions get the best of you.
Stay true to your mission and embrace the other wondrous feelings that surround you. Continue to bring joy, laughter, happiness, smiles, love, caring, comfort, support, positivity, and light to everyone you encounter. You will find it returned to you in amounts you cannot contain!
CJ
I feel I came here to be an agent of relief, helping others through their suffering. Angel? Maybe. Helper at the very least. However, before you can help someone on a deep level, you have to understand them. To truly understand pain and suffering, you have to experience it. I have.
I've been humiliated, cried, lost, fell, failed, been lied to, cheated, slapped, punched, kicked, subjugated, hurt, torn, broken, disrespected, hungry, thirsty, angry, abused, depressed, and lost. When I reach out to others I rarely say "I know what you are going through" nor do I often say "I know how that feels". Even though I most certainly do.
It can be extremely difficult to touch some one's pain without letting yourself be overwhelmed by those pains all over again. You have to feel them to show empathy, but how much you embrace is a line you must draw to stay on the strong side of emotions. Some people believe that counselors, and therapists draw that line dark & thick and always see it very clearly. I believe the line by its nature is light & fluid and can be crossed in a heartbeat. It is not a switch you can simply turn off. When the helping is all done, you take the pain with you. You process it as work, duty, or sacrifice to help others but sometimes it stays with you.
It's that one sad song you just cant stop playing, that sad movie that brings tears to your eyes every time, or that memory that rips you apart every time no matter how many times you say you have worked through it. These are the keys to your deepest pain, to the place where you truly understand what it means to hurt.
Sometimes we stay there too long. It comes a time when you need a shoulder to cry on. You feel like no one can help you because you have the world on your shoulders, and you must be strong enough to overcome your trials alone. It is during these times when it seems like living on this planet is a mistake, inside you are screaming in emotional agony. Now is when you must keep it all in perspective, after all there is no pain in the world that others have not suffered through before. Reach out.
Find your release. Write to your heart's content about what you are going through knowing that there is an opening at the other end. Listen to music that frees your soul from those painful memories. Turn to that special someone who knows how to ease your troubled mind. Cry if you must, but let it be a cleansing cry to shed some of the pain, not a cry that drags you down. If you were called to this place to help others, do it with compassion and sincerity. Just never let the emotions get the best of you.
Stay true to your mission and embrace the other wondrous feelings that surround you. Continue to bring joy, laughter, happiness, smiles, love, caring, comfort, support, positivity, and light to everyone you encounter. You will find it returned to you in amounts you cannot contain!
CJ
Wednesday, May 12, 2010
How I Enjoy Life
Warning! The following post is being made as a stream of consciousness moment:
How I Enjoy Life
by Hopegiver
I think it starts with deep core values which have become ingrained in my soul.
1) Always have a smile & have a kind word for others
2) Never just be a sheep.
3) Never let them back you into a corner.
& 4) Have Fun!
1)In my brief 40 years on this planet, I have learned that laughter is truly the best medicine. When I smile and insist on a positive outlook, my days seem to always go better. When I am having a bad day, moment, or episode, I embrace it. I may not like it but I don't hide it. By feeling it and working through it, I can get on with it faster and back to myself. When I have a kind word for others (or just a smile) I know that I am making this world a more enjoyable place to be for someone else. This also re-energizes me and makes me smile.
2)I have followed others for too much of my life and have rarely enjoyed the outcome. So I try to remember that there is some truth in having "Master of my own fate" thinking. Whenever there is an 'expected' reaction, I often explore options to that. This keeps my thinking vibrant and helps me get through those moments where it seems like time to give up, run away, or get angry. From time to time when someone expects a certain reaction from me, I switch gears and investigate others responses not only to make life more interesting but also to stay true to myself. I try to be in a place where what others think of me in terms of how I live my life is secondary to my own feelings. As it should be.
3.)I make decisions everyday without thinking too hard, but at my center I am indeed probably thinking way too much. Like most of us I want to be in charge(even if I can't be, I WANT to be). If someone else is pushing, I began to believe I don't HAVE to push back, it is a decision to be made. If I don't push back I can find alternatives and steer clear of major problems. I suppose I really like what Louisiana Blues great Lazy Lester said back in the 1950s, "I'm a lover not a fighter." However, if I do decide to push back it will be because I have identified a path of resistance that I want to take like in a good argument. I hate to be reactionary, I much rather prefer to roll with it interactively or be proactive. Living a reactionary life is how you end up in a dark alley with no clue how you got there.
4)Who doesn't like to have fun? What I like to do is find what stimulates me and engage. Writing, Reading, Games, Chatting with Friends & Listening to Music! I am certainly aware of the consequences of over indulgence, afterall who I am today is the price I paid to get what I used to want. But we only go around once (that we are aware of - even the re-incarnationists usually agree that we are unaware of previous journeys), so why not enjoy it?
Through patience and understanding I have arrived at a place in my life where I can be in two or three moments at once and adjust my being to which one I prefer, or two at a time, or all at once. There is no real way to explain that, it just deep philosophical stuff here. Some people refer to it as being able to turn off a switch, moving from one emotion to the next. I much rather prefer the analogy of a train-yard. There are many tracks and you are usually only going one way, but there is beauty in the realization that you can back that engine up, uncouple the weight and reload as many times as you wish at least until the fuel runs out. Then of course you just need to grab a Dr. Pepper and blow the horn because it is time to roll on again, ALL ABOARD!!!
CJ
How I Enjoy Life
by Hopegiver
I think it starts with deep core values which have become ingrained in my soul.
1) Always have a smile & have a kind word for others
2) Never just be a sheep.
3) Never let them back you into a corner.
& 4) Have Fun!
1)In my brief 40 years on this planet, I have learned that laughter is truly the best medicine. When I smile and insist on a positive outlook, my days seem to always go better. When I am having a bad day, moment, or episode, I embrace it. I may not like it but I don't hide it. By feeling it and working through it, I can get on with it faster and back to myself. When I have a kind word for others (or just a smile) I know that I am making this world a more enjoyable place to be for someone else. This also re-energizes me and makes me smile.
2)I have followed others for too much of my life and have rarely enjoyed the outcome. So I try to remember that there is some truth in having "Master of my own fate" thinking. Whenever there is an 'expected' reaction, I often explore options to that. This keeps my thinking vibrant and helps me get through those moments where it seems like time to give up, run away, or get angry. From time to time when someone expects a certain reaction from me, I switch gears and investigate others responses not only to make life more interesting but also to stay true to myself. I try to be in a place where what others think of me in terms of how I live my life is secondary to my own feelings. As it should be.
3.)I make decisions everyday without thinking too hard, but at my center I am indeed probably thinking way too much. Like most of us I want to be in charge(even if I can't be, I WANT to be). If someone else is pushing, I began to believe I don't HAVE to push back, it is a decision to be made. If I don't push back I can find alternatives and steer clear of major problems. I suppose I really like what Louisiana Blues great Lazy Lester said back in the 1950s, "I'm a lover not a fighter." However, if I do decide to push back it will be because I have identified a path of resistance that I want to take like in a good argument. I hate to be reactionary, I much rather prefer to roll with it interactively or be proactive. Living a reactionary life is how you end up in a dark alley with no clue how you got there.
4)Who doesn't like to have fun? What I like to do is find what stimulates me and engage. Writing, Reading, Games, Chatting with Friends & Listening to Music! I am certainly aware of the consequences of over indulgence, afterall who I am today is the price I paid to get what I used to want. But we only go around once (that we are aware of - even the re-incarnationists usually agree that we are unaware of previous journeys), so why not enjoy it?
Through patience and understanding I have arrived at a place in my life where I can be in two or three moments at once and adjust my being to which one I prefer, or two at a time, or all at once. There is no real way to explain that, it just deep philosophical stuff here. Some people refer to it as being able to turn off a switch, moving from one emotion to the next. I much rather prefer the analogy of a train-yard. There are many tracks and you are usually only going one way, but there is beauty in the realization that you can back that engine up, uncouple the weight and reload as many times as you wish at least until the fuel runs out. Then of course you just need to grab a Dr. Pepper and blow the horn because it is time to roll on again, ALL ABOARD!!!
CJ
Wednesday, May 5, 2010
What Job?
Okay, the job with the county didn't work out. Without going into details, let's just say that it was a bad fit. Luckily the United States government came to my rescue. I am now working for the US Census Bureau as an Enumerator. I am walking the blocks of my neighborhood to follow up on those addresses that did not respond to the census questionnaire.
Since I am a people person, I am enjoying this job alot. I get to meet & talk to a lot of interesting people and collect important data at the same time. Yes it is hot out there, and yes there are a quirky few folks out there as well, but for the most part I like the assignment.
Hopefully the next update will be another vlog (video log for all you less tech savvy visitors) entry. I really enjoyed doing that last time.
Come back and see me,
CJ
Since I am a people person, I am enjoying this job alot. I get to meet & talk to a lot of interesting people and collect important data at the same time. Yes it is hot out there, and yes there are a quirky few folks out there as well, but for the most part I like the assignment.
Hopefully the next update will be another vlog (video log for all you less tech savvy visitors) entry. I really enjoyed doing that last time.
Come back and see me,
CJ
Thursday, April 15, 2010
Someone Got a New Job!!
Well it took about 7 months, but I will once again be a part of the work-force. On Monday, I begin working with the Nueces County Correctional Department as a Resident Treatment Assistant.
I am very excited about the challenge and the reward of working to help others who want to help themselves.
Thank you to all my friends and family who kept me in their prayers, to God be all the glory.
CJ
I am very excited about the challenge and the reward of working to help others who want to help themselves.
Thank you to all my friends and family who kept me in their prayers, to God be all the glory.
CJ
Monday, April 5, 2010
Monday, March 8, 2010
Messages of Hope
The book of inspirational messages I was working on is complete.
"Hopegiver's Path - Messages of Hope"
By Clyde Johnson
Find it here:
https://www.createspace.com/3429277
"Hopegiver's Path - Messages of Hope"
By Clyde Johnson
Find it here:
https://www.createspace.com/3429277
Friday, January 22, 2010
Rest Stop
Like walking through a series of tunnels I found myself wandering a bit in recent months. I ran into a space which seemed to be a dead-end. I had been searching the walls sure there was an exit I couldn't see. Day after day I insisted on looking for the way forward. I would look around at the walls and see no exit. I would press and feel for a trick opening, but none was found.
I realized what the problem was. It is not a dead-end, it is a resting place. Sometimes we are so busy running at full speed that we miss alot. Not only so we fail to smell the roses, we are going so fast that we didn't even know there were any kind of flowers nearby at all! What I have been perceiving as a ending, has actually been a beginning.
Before I could see my way out of the passage, I had to sit down and rest. Take it all in and prepare for the next part of my journey. There is peace here, I do not thirst, I do not hunger. Now that I am resting, I find myself inspired to create. Faithful readers have no doubt noticed that I recently completed a book. I am now working on two others...Yes 2! The inspirational one I am just about finished with and a children's book.
I am grateful that I have stopped looking for the way forward and have embraced that where I am supposed to be for now is right where I am.
CJ
I realized what the problem was. It is not a dead-end, it is a resting place. Sometimes we are so busy running at full speed that we miss alot. Not only so we fail to smell the roses, we are going so fast that we didn't even know there were any kind of flowers nearby at all! What I have been perceiving as a ending, has actually been a beginning.
Before I could see my way out of the passage, I had to sit down and rest. Take it all in and prepare for the next part of my journey. There is peace here, I do not thirst, I do not hunger. Now that I am resting, I find myself inspired to create. Faithful readers have no doubt noticed that I recently completed a book. I am now working on two others...Yes 2! The inspirational one I am just about finished with and a children's book.
I am grateful that I have stopped looking for the way forward and have embraced that where I am supposed to be for now is right where I am.
CJ
Sunday, January 17, 2010
Just Released!
Please support yours truly as my first original book is now available for sale!
WooHoo!!!!!!!!!
https://www.createspace.com/3421190
Uneasy Darkness
www.createspace.com
There is nothing to be afraid of, except the dark. Experience stories and poems where the dead return to prey on the living, some things move unnaturally towards you, and things don't always go as planned. Tales and poetry to make you shiver uneasily in the darkness.
WooHoo!!!!!!!!!
https://www.createspace.com/3421190
Uneasy Darkness
www.createspace.com
There is nothing to be afraid of, except the dark. Experience stories and poems where the dead return to prey on the living, some things move unnaturally towards you, and things don't always go as planned. Tales and poetry to make you shiver uneasily in the darkness.
Wednesday, January 13, 2010
Book News
I have completed a book. However, it was not written as Rev. CJ. It is something I was working on for the last two years.
Please visit my other blog for details:
http://rottingdead.blogspot.com
Cheers,
CJ
Please visit my other blog for details:
http://rottingdead.blogspot.com
Cheers,
CJ
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