Making Mistakes

We sometimes get discouraged when we have a set back in life. It can be twice as difficult to bare if was a set back was directly resulting from a mistake we made. Too often, once we realize the mistake, we chastise ourselves. Even if we dont actively beat ourselves up over a bad choice, we still have emotional punishment that we heap upon our own spirit. Guilt, shame, despair and even depression can haunt us as we recall a misplaced word or action.

We need to learn how to accept mistakes as part of our journey. We most often don't make bad choices maliciously or in a conscious effot to cause someone else harm. We are taught that concept at a young age but we forget its impact. A child should not only be scolded for bad behavior but taught why they are being disciplined and how to avoid making the same choice in the future. The negative emotion of getting into trouble is temporary but the lesson is hopefully taken to heart.

As we become adults, we too must understand that those feelings we struggle with (like guilt and shame) associated with mistakes are also not permanent. Why not try to learn from our mistakes? It is from our mistakes we can truly learn to grow. Much like moving through a tunnel, we must pass through the darkness to exit into the light.

So begin to see mistakes as your classroom.

CJ